Thursday, May 31, 2012

TMI THURSDAY: ANSWERS

1. What was the worst way someone (of some significance) has broken up with you? In hind site, was it the correct thing to do?
Believe it or not, no one has ever broken up with me. In all my significant relationships, I was the one who ended it.
2. What was the worst way you dumped someone? In hind site, was it the correct thing to do?
I was always tried to be nice and always did it in person. Although I miss being it a relationship, it was always the right thing to do.
The first love of my life was also the first person I lived with (it was his house). He knew I wanted to talk and that things had been bad rough between us. Since I didn't know what would happen to me after breaking up, I had gotten an apartment before the talk and moved my things out before he got home that day. Before I could get him to sit down, he went to change and saw my clothes were gone. It's all I had there. All, and mean all, my other things were stored at a friends.
3. What is the most someone has done to persuade you to go out with them?
He left a note on my car saying he had seen me and had to get to know me. No name or number (this was in '95), the next day he left a note and a daisy, and the next day he left a single red rose asking me for a date  with a time and location (I still hadn't spoken to him or knew his name or what he looked like), on the 4th day, the day of the date,  he left two roses and a note that he was looking forward to the evening and hoped I'd come. Yes, I went and he greeted me at the door with the remaining dozen roses. He was very cute and very nice. My friend was watching from near by, in case he was a psyco. I had a great time but it didn't go the way either of us would have liked and we parted ways after a few more dates.
4. Ex-lovers - friends? Enemies? Non-existent?
I remain close to many of my first ex's and we continue to remain in each other's lives and circle of friends. However, after a really heartbreaking breakup, I decided no new ex's in my life, that it wasn't good for me. 
5. Sex with and ex?
No. I always felt that once it was over, it's over.

Bonus
You have just discovered you have a super power that rival's Superman, do you become a Super Hero or a Super Villain?
I hope I'd be a Hero but feel like I could be corrupted by the power. I think it's because I was bullied and I'd become very vengeful. 

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  • 4 comments:

    1. great answer you are such a sweetie

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    2. 1. A note on my fucking windshield. While I was parked at work.

      2. Took him out for drinks to say it was over. Breaking up was the correct thing. The correct way? I don't know. We didn't have texting back then. :)

      3. You got the note for the date as opposed to the break=up. HA. I'm not sure anyone's gone OUT of their way other than to buy me a beer. I'm easy and cheap.

      4. Pseudo-friends (Facebook) w one ex. The rest - dead or canadian? More like jail, dead or canadian. I'm ok with no contact.

      5. I don't talk with them, certainly not sleeping with them.

      6. I'm easily corruptable. I'd probably go with villan. Sad to say, but true.

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    3. 1. What was the worst way someone (of some significance) has broken up with you? In hind site, was it the correct thing to do?

      To be honest, I've never completely come to grips with the way an ex broke up with me - in part becasue I never really understood why. He just started to disappear from my life. It was devastating and sent me reeling emotionally. I was far too vested in him, way beyond what he was capable of handling or what he agreed too, so much of the blame falls on my shoulders. Was it the correct thing to do? No. There was never a sense of closure, not even a fight or harsh words. Just nothing.

      2. What was the worst way you dumped someone? In hind site, was it the correct thing to do?

      I was in a long distance relationship with a woman and I broke up with her over the phone. It was cowardly and immature. And to make it worse, I got snot-hanging drunk at her wedding and fell with my dance partner on the dancefloor in front of their videographer. What a class act.

      3. What is the most someone has done to persuade you to go out with them?

      A woman showed up at my apartment naked under her coat and when I opened the door, she flashed me. Possibly the most awkward moment of my life.

      4. Ex-lovers - friends? Enemies? Non-existent?

      Really superficial friends. The guy I referenced in question 1 texts me occasionally.

      5. Sex with and ex?

      Further to my answer above -- he has suggested it, but I haven't acted on it. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought of it. Completely fucked up -- the sex with him wasn't even that good.

      Bonus
      You have just discovered you have a super power that rival's Superman, do you become a Super Hero or a Super Villain?
      Superhero. most definitely.

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